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How infertility made it easier for me to cope with the pandemic

I hope anyone who has been reading my blog for any length of time or who knows me personally would already know this, but I feel the need to share this caveat before diving into today’s topic. I am not trying to make light of the pandemic. Many have lost…

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The forgotten side of infertility – An interview with hopeful grandparents

Hopeful grandparents of couples trying to conceive are often overlooked when it comes to infertility pain and grief. They suffer silently in the background, selflessly prioritizing the needs of their children before their own. I interviewed our Moms (my Mom and Mother-in-law) to learn more about how our infertility has…

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The empty manger

There’s an adorable Christmas book called, The Giving Manger. It comes with a wooden manger, a bundle of straw, and a baby Jesus. Every time a member of your family does an act of service, they put a piece of straw in the manger. By Christmas, it’s full of straw,…

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How Deciding to Spay My Puppy Wrecked Me In Ways I Couldn’t Anticipate #Infertility

(I won’t be engaging in a debate about whether it’s right or wrong to spay or neuter pets here and any comments belittling either choice will not be published.) Arwen, my sweet golden retriever puppy, will be 7 months old in a couple weeks. Our veterinarian recommended getting her spayed…

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Are you nursing a Mother’s Day hangover?

If you’re experiencing infertility, this Monday might be feeling extra Monday-ish in the wake of Mother’s Day. Not because you literally have a hangover, but because yesterday was an emotional roller coaster. What was yesterday like for you? Maybe you attended a brunch celebrating the beautiful mothers in your life.…

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How to end an uncomfortable conversation about infertility: the IF business card

I try to be uplifting and positive in my posts about infertility, while still sharing the struggle and more difficult realties. Fair warning: This is neither of those things. It’s a post about the inappropriate questions strangers ask after observing our family of two. If you’re feeling sensitive today, or…

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